Mom says verbal abuse, fat shaming may have driven teen to murder her father

MUNCIE, Ind. — A teen is accused of killing her father in what the suspect's mother said may have been an act motivated by years of fat shaming and other mental abuse by the teen's dad.

Ameera Stokes, 18, is accused of hitting her father in the head with a hammer and stabbing him in the chest inside his Michigan home. She then allegedly called 911 to confess.

The suspect's mother said she's not excusing her daughter's actions, but theorized that the killing may have taken place because the girl’s father was verbally abusive for years.

"What she did was absolutely horrific. I can’t imagine what he must have went through, but I don’t want her to get locked up for the rest of her life either," Gretchen Brasher said.

According to court records, prosecutors charged have charged Stokes with murder and claim the killing started with a fight over "life issues."

Stokes' mother said the teen endured years of verbal abuse at the hands of her father, Donald Stokes, who Brasher said constantly teased Stokes about being overweight.

"She said she hated herself, that she was fat and worthless. She felt she was a burden to everybody," Brasher said.

Brasher said that in 2014, Stokes stabbed a friend at a Boys and Girls Club because she didn’t want to live with her dad any longer and wanted to be arrested.

"She tried everything she could to get away from her dad. Her dad was physically abusive to her sister and verbally abusive to her. She lived in fear every day," Brasher said.

Last year, Stokes came to live in Muncie, Ind., with her mother. During that time, the teen allegedly attempted suicide by driving her mom's car into a pole.

"The police said she jumped out of the car and said she just wanted to die. They took her to Ball, but they wouldn’t keep her. We begged them to keep her," Brasher said.

Brasher believes years of verbal abuse and other financial issues took a toll on her daughter and she hopes the 18-year-old receives mental health treatment, instead of a life behind bars.

"She deserves to be punished for what she did, but she deserves to have a life. I really hope she gets mental help," Brasher said.

Stokes is being held without bond in a Michigan jail until trial.