Husband creates spreadsheet detailing wife’s excuses to not have sex with him

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One husband was so fed up with his wife making excuses to not have sex with him, he sent her a spreadsheet detailing all her reasons — according to Reddit.

“My husband [M26] sent me [F26] an immature, inflammatory email as I was driving to the airport for a 10-day work trip,” the woman posted under the relationships subreddit. “Now he has cut contact.”

The woman admits that their sex life has cooled down over the last few months. “…But isn’t that allowed?” she wrote. “We are adults leading busy, stressful lives. I cook for him, I do his laundry, I keep our house clean and tidy.”

From June 3 to July 16, the woman’s husband initiated sex everyday and succeeded three times, according to the passive aggressive spreadsheet.

“I just came back from the gym, I feel gross,” one cell on the document reads. “Didn’t shower until the next morning” is written in parenthesis next to the excuse.

“I’m watching the show (Friends re-run),” another line reads.

“It’s not like our sex life was going to be this way FOREVER, it was a temporary slow-down due to extenuating circumstances,” the woman wrote.

The post garnered hundreds of comments, some in support of the husband and others in support of the wife.

7 comments

  • christine

    Yes we all have busy lives but if you want to keep a good man , you as a wife need to take care of your husband before he finds another woman 😉

    • Tee

      If he is going to complain like that to her, that is not a good husband. Her job has her leaving home for 10 days and he sends her a message of his complaint as if it is a sign he is going to be getting his relief while she is gone. A good man would have sat down with his wife and discussed the matter, perhaps she is tired after working and tending to the home. Most women force themselves to sleep with their husbands after their day because they are afraid the man will go elsewhere, why not tell the man to help around the home also. This is not the 40s on where women were just home all day, some put in more time than the husbands and are still expected to carry on as it if they were at a spa the entire day.

      • Rakan

        I used to work all day then come home and clean and cook for my girlfriend because she used to come home around an hour later and I still had more than enough energy to have sex. If you’re too exhausted to have sex it just really means that you don’t want to do it. The man does most of the work anyway.

      • Rakan

        I used to work all day then come home and clean and cook for my girlfriend because she used to come home around an hour later and I still had more than enough energy to have sex. If you’re too exhausted to have sex it just really means that you don’t want to do it. The man does most of the work anyway.

  • Tee

    @ Rakan- LOL, I am sorry that has been your experience in the privacy of your home to be doing most of the work during sex. However, what was your work day like? I know those who leave their homes at 6am and are not home til about 9-10pm at nights, this is both men and women by the way that is what I consider working all day– not a 9-5 job. I do not think you fell in the bracket that this couple did. He should have spoken to her directly rather than an email of his complaints and solved it that way. Its like saying see how many times I asked for it and you said no, now I will go get it elsewhere.

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