“We had so many plans. Get a service dog, get married, get a house, vacations. We had so much planned to to do, now we can’t do it,” said Krystina Dressler.
Krystina Dressler fell in love with Derek McConnell in High School. He joined the army and they got engaged. McConnell, stationed in Kandahar, Afghanistan was proud to be a soldier. He tragically lost his legs in an IED explosion in July 2011.
Krystina stood by him.
“I listened for a heartbeat that wasn’t there, I called his squad leader because I didn’t know what else to do, I called 9-11,” said Dressler.
That was March 18, 2013, two years to the day McConnell had deployed.
“It’s inconclusive, it could be this it could be that, there’s no pinpointed reason,” said Dressler.
“I’m not getting the answers that I need,” said his mother Siobhan Fueller-McConnell.
There are four other children, but there is a hole in Siobhan Fueller-McConnell’s heart and with that pain questions about how her son died. A few days before his death, McConnell had been treated for severe abdominal pain at the hospital on base but he had been released, she told us at her parsimony New Jersey home.
“I want to know why my 23-year-old son didn’t wake up one morning. It’s just not ok with me, that he’s here one day and gone the next and can’t tell me why,” said McConnell.
Family says the official cause was accidental. A spokesperson for Walter Reed National Military Medical Center said this is an ongoing investigation and they do not comment on ongoing investigations.